by Marilyn Ehle
“…if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior…” 1 Peter 3:1
“Here’s a book you’ll love.” “You will really laugh at this joke.” But when the book is read or the joke told, a blank, uncomprehending stare is the only response. How much better if we had simply described the book’s impact on us, or how the joke’s punch line made us laugh uproariously.
Christians often use similar statements when trying to convince others of the results they can expect if they just follow Jesus. “You’ll never know such happiness.” Or “your family will be reunited.” “Your health will miraculously improve.” However, in many parts of the world, following obediently after Jesus produces profound sorrow, suffering and conflict.
I hunger to read a book when a friend relates how the skills taught made her a more competent computer user, or how principles followed enabled the reader to improve in areas as varied as cooking, weight loss or relationship skills.
The old adage is true in more than cookery: “the proof of the pudding is in the eating,” which basically means that the quality of something is uncertain until it has been tested directly. Mere words cannot convince others of the goodness of God or the joy of salvation. While we are to never shy away from using words to describe God and His great gifts, truth lived out then gently described whets the appetite to hear more. Peter’s words are directed specifically to wives but are applicable to all: …if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior…
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