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Therefore keep watch, because you do not know the day or hour” Matthew 25:13


Christian DevotionalWe were on one of those “around the world in 10 days” trips.
It was December and my husband Marvin and I, along with another couple, had been on the road – actually in the air – for five days. We were getting weary and I was eager to get home to complete my Christmas preparations.

We were flying from Ethiopia to meet friends in Bangalore, India. From there we were flying to Singapore, Hong Kong and Macau. Only five days left.

On the flight to India, the people in the plane were very noisy, or at least it seemed that way. Lack of sleep has a way of magnifying sounds.  I noticed the flight attendants whispering amongst themselves. They looked concerned. Shortly after, the pilot came on the public address system and then I understood.  He announced very calmly, “Please pay careful attention. We have received notice that there could be a bomb on this plane. You must be calm. We will not taxi to the air terminal when we land, but to the far end of the airstrip. You will be taken to the terminal by bus.”

The people on the plane became very quiet. The incessant, loud chatter turned to silence. Everyone was deep in thought, evaluating their life, no doubt. I know I was. My first thoughts were, “Well, Lord, maybe I’ll see You today. That would be wonderful.” I had such a calm and peaceful spirit – it didn’t seem normal.

This is the blessing of knowing God personally and being in the center of His will. There is no fear in facing Him. In fact, great joy will fill your heart at the thought of seeing Him soon.

Elisabeth Elliot, a well-known author and speaker, once told a group of women that the safest place for any person is in the center of God’s will. I experienced this truth that day. We were certainly relieved when the bomb threat turned out to be a false alarm. But even during the time of wondering if the plane might be blown to bits, I felt safe. I was exactly where God wanted me to be.

The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms” (Deuteronomy 33:27).

Father, thank you for giving us peace, perfect peace, in place of fear. Amen.

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But thou, O Lord, art a God full of compassion and gracious, long suffering, and plenteous in mercy and truth.” Psalm 86:15

As I pushed the grocery cart out of the store, I noticed the man; he was collecting money for physically challenged people. He himself was in a wheelchair.

Should I stop and talk to him, I wondered. It was Friday night and raining outside. I just wanted to go home to our warm house.

But then I remembered my brother Frank. The last years of his life were spent in a wheelchair because of being stricken with Lou Gehrig’s disease. Near the end of his life all he could do was blink his eyes for “yes” or “no“. Without a wheelchair he would have been bedridden.

I stopped and talked to the man for a while and donated some money.

Experiencing the frustration of watching healthy people park in handicapped zones (I used to do it too), watching people avoiding meeting my brother’s eyes or not talking to him because they were intimidated changed me. The agonizing experience of watching my brother deteriorate has made me more compassionate.

Hardships do that for a person. We begin to take the time to stop and talk and laugh with hurting people. The tough times build character into our souls. The Lord uses the painful experiences to polish us so people can see Christ in us. Hardships can make us more like Jesus.

Someone once said,
If you want to shine for Jesus, you have to be polished.

Father, thank You for the hardships You lead us through. You use them to make us more compassionate, more loving and kind. More tender. Make us be more like Jesus. Amen.

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Bless the Lord, oh my soul and all that is within me praise His Holy Name.Psalm 103:1

We had another four inches of snow last night and the birds were looking for food.  I put on my jacket and boots and took another scoop of birdseed out to the feeder.

My husband placed the bird feeder so I can easily see it from my office window and our daughter’s fiance supplied me with a large container of birdseed.

The chickadees (at least twelve) and the spotted towhee rewarded me with a spectacular show. For hours they flitted happily from tree branch to the bird feeder, then to the hedge and back to the feeder again.  My heart soared with praise to my heavenly Father for the joy He provided.

But He had more joy in store for me. When I went outside to clear the snow from the sidewalk and driveway, my neighbor came over and cleared the snow for me with his snow blower (my husband was away on a ministry trip).  Thank you, Lord!

Today was one of those days my mind was filled with praise all day.  Some days are like that!

Thank you, Father, for your kindness.  My words are so inadequate to express my feelings of joy to you. Take what is in my heart as a gift of love.  Amen.

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Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? Even these forget, but I will not forget thee.”  Isaiah 49:15

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After having a leisurely lunch with Val, our daughter, I went to do a few errands before driving home.  Marvin, my husband, had asked me to stop at the jewelers to have his watch bracelet repaired.  Because the repair shop was out of the way of my usual pattern of shopping, I was concerned that I might forget.

Several times during my shopping, I prayed, “Lord, please don’t let me forget to drop off Marvin’s watch.” And then He spoke to me. He said, “I am not deaf and I am not like you.  I won’t forget.”

Of course!  How come I treated Him like a mere human? I didn’t have to keep reminding Him to remind me.  He hears instantly —I don’t have to keep asking Him.

How often we put God on a human level. He has all knowledge and can never forget! He is the Almighty God.

Good reminder.  Thank God!

Father, you are so great. You don’t forget. You can’t forget because you are God. Cause our finite minds begin to grasp your awesomeness. Amen.

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Every good and perfect gift is from aboveJames 1:17

How are you doing with your Christmas shopping? I am about half done. With a family as large as ours, the shopping (wish) list is quite long. And when Christmas day arrives, after we have eaten, sung carols and focused on the real meaning of Christmas, we open gifts – and I sit there hoping I haven’t forgotten someone.

When I was 14 years old, my parents told us we wouldn’t be getting Christmas gifts that year. We would be getting the usual plate of nuts, candies and mandarin oranges, but no gifts. There were too many of us. Money was very scarce. I accepted that. Some years are like that.

However, on Christmas morning, to our surprise, there was a gift for each of us after all. I don’t recall the gifts my brothers and sisters received, but mine was a beautiful blue taffeta dress. It fit me perfectly. I loved the color and the style. It was so special because I wasn’t expecting it. My dad had to sell some of his milk quota (we lived on a dairy farm) so they could buy us gifts. Sacrifice.

Of all the wonderful gifts I have received during the years, the blue taffeta dress stands out in my memory. It was an unexpected surprise.

I was thinking about that this week and thought I would like to surprise someone, too. I asked the Lord to bring to mind someone who wouldn’t be expecting a gift from me – someone who wasn’t on my list. I am going to buy her a real nice gift and surprise her.

Pray about it. Maybe God would put the same idea in your heart. You don’t have to buy something – you could give your time.

Father, we are aware that every generous thought comes from You. Any thought of giving comes from You. You loved us so much that You gave Your Son. Thank You! Amen

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“Because the Lord God helps me, I will not be dismayed; therefore, I have set my face like flint to do his will, and I know I will triumph.” Isaiah 50:7

Marvin and I were driving home from a wedding just west of Olympia, Washington. As is our habit when we drive, we began to talk about things that are important to us. This day we were discussing the coming year’s – goals, resolutions and plans.

Because the previous year had been a year of transition for us, we decided to discuss and re-affirm the commitments we had made to God many years ago. What was it we would continue to do with all our hearts and minds and souls? What would we pour our lives into in the coming year?

Here are some of the affirmations we made to God and to each other for the year:

1. We will continue to love the Lord our God with all of our heart, soul and strength.

2. We will continue serving Him – our aim is to please Him in all of our ways.

3. We will continue to use (read and obey) the Bible as the standard for our lives.

4. We will continue to love and be faithful to each other.

5. We will continue to love and be faithful to our children and grandchildren.

6. We will continue to give our tithes and offerings to the Lord.

7. We will continue to work hard and do the best we can to win people to Christ and help the unfortunate around the world.

There were more, but these were the most important to us.

How about you? Do you write out your commitments to God? If not, I encourage you to do so. Keep them in your Bible, so they are always before you.

Father, we love to do Your will! We love to serve You! Thank You for giving us the grace, the will and power to follow Your ways. In our hearts we say, “Yes Lord, yes!”. Amen.

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Man is like a breath; his days are like a fleeting shadow.” Psalm 144.4

We won’t see him again.  We won’t hear his voice.  We won’t see the twinkle in his eyes.  He won’t be encouraging us anymore. We will miss him very much.  He died! People at his memorial remembered his love for and commitment to Jesus resulting in his priority to help fulfill the Great Commission.

This year we have attended several memorials and I observed something–that who we are (character) and what we have done will be remembered at the memorial and printed in the obituaries. I realized this is our legacy–not our nicely decorated homes, our cars, our clothes and jewelry, or expensive toys or life insurance.  The meaningful legacy we leave behind are memories and how we have influenced people.

And of course Jesus knows what really counts for eternity and will reward us for our good works (what He thinks is good) when we stand before Him.

I have come to the conclusion that so much of our busyness is of no consequence. 

Lord, help us know what really makes a difference to the people we leave behind and for all eternity. Our time is so short.  Amen.

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They (people who delight in everything God wants them to do) are like trees along a river bank bearing luscious fruit each season without fail” Psalm 1:3

The timing couldn’t have been better. My husband was home for a few days between trips, the weather was great, the grandchildren were out of school an hour early and the apples were ripe and ready to be picked.

As Marvin started the tractor, our daughter and granddaughters stepped into the front scoop and they all headed off to the big old apple tree in the middle of our pasture. Picking apples from the elevated scoop is so much easier than using a ladder. I watched them for a while and then decided to join them. I couldn’t stay in the house working on the computer when they were having so much fun.

We were all laughing. The girls loved picking the apples and we ended up with a large container full. I was amazed at how many apples that old tree produced. It was old when we first moved to the property 14 years ago. The trunk of the tree was almost completely rotten. How did it get its nourishment to produce leaves and fruit, I wondered? I came to the conclusion that because it was so old, its roots had grown very deep into the soil and they nourished the tree.

Christians also produce fruit in season and out of season, not just when we look and feel good. My brother had Lou Gehrig’s disease and spent his last two years in a long-term care hospital. Even though he was confined to a wheelchair and couldn’t speak, he radiated Christ. People would come to see him just so they could sit in his presence. He prayed all the time. At his memorial, his nurses all came. They openly shared that they would come to his room and tell him more than they told their significant other. Several of these nurses came to faith in Christ. Even though Frank’s body was decaying, he was rooted and grounded in Christ.

How are you doing today? Feeling a little discouraged because you cannot “do” all the things you used to be able to do? Let me encourage you to “be.” Abide in Christ and He will produce the fruit in and through you. Rest in Him and He will cause you to bear much fruit.

Father, thank You for producing fruit in and through us. Enable us to grow our roots deep into the knowledge of Your love so we will produce fruit whether we look or feel good or not. Thank You for telling us that we can’t do anything without Christ. It is good to know we can rely on You for everything. Amen.

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“Let us throw off everything that hinders and run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” Hebrews 12:1

USA Today ran an article that stated:
Two in three adults believe ethics “vary by situation” and that there is no “unchanging ethical standard of right and wrong”. Only 18% of the people, ages 20 – 30 said that there was one standard of right and wrong.

The Vancouver Province printed another study which concluded that we tell 200 lies a day “everything from giving excuses for our behavior to saying things like, “I hate to bother you””.

What set of values dictate your ethics – your behavior? Is it the Bible? Do you have convictions that cause you to say, “I will never do that” or “For me, that is not an option”. Do you even have a code of ethics?

We can’t expect our children, our grandchildren, our co-workers or the next generation to do what is right if they see you doing what is wrong.

The Bible says we are to “flee from evil – not flirt with it.” Even little things can erode your standards. If you don’t think through and write down your non-negotiable code of ethics, when temptation comes you might say or do something that you will be very sorry for. It could haunt you the rest of your life.

Former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher once said, “I am not a consensus politician, I am a conviction politician” The popular vote was not going to sway her decision-making. She had standards in place beforehand so she could chose wisely, even when the right choice was the unpopular one.

What kind of person are you? Do you have convictions and ethical standards? Or do you live by the consensus of others opinions?

Lord, the temptation to lie, flirt or steal is always there. We need You to give us the strength to obey You.  Help us to set our face like a flint to what is right in your sight…to throw off every sin.  Amen.

Here is How You Can Have the Power to Change:
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When we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all of our sins.”  1 John 1:9

We had out of town guests and I was doing laundry every day.  But the dryer wasn’t working properly.  It took over an hour to dry a load of laundry, and the clothes weren’t even warm when I took them out of the dryer.

I mentioned it to my husband and we checked the dryer manual and read the page called “trouble shooting”.  We checked everything they suggested that could cause the problem – and all but one thing was in working order.  However, we needed to check the dyer air vent on the outside of the house to see if it was clogged.  Marvin climbed up a latter and looked inside the vent and guess what?  An old bird nest was in the vent.  It was blocking the air flow—the hot air wasn’t able to escape.  He removed the bird nest and the dryer started to work like new.

The lesson I learned from this experience was two fold:

1. Read the manual written by the manufacturer. They made the dryer and know how   to keep it going and how to fix it when things go wrong.

2
.    Even a small bird nest can stop the flow of warm air that dries the clothes.

So also, in our lives, we must remember to be constantly in tune with our Maker through prayer and reading and reflecting on God’s Word. God has made us and knows everything about us.  He will warm our hearts when we spend time alone with Him.  When we worship Him, He will point out the things that clog our communication channel to Him.

For example, when I have a critical attitude, I prevent God’s love from warming my heart.  Criticism and love can’t occupy the same space.  However, when we confess our sins to Him, He forgives and cleanses us from all sin and takes the throne of our hearts once again.

How are you doing today?  Do you have a cold heart?  Take time alone with God and ask Him to show you what is stopping His flow of love into your heart?

Father, our wonderful Maker and Friend, we desire our hearts to be warm with  your love.  Show us if there is anything in our life that is stopping the flow of your love.  We want a deeper love relationship with You.  Amen

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“I will meditate on the glorious splendor of your majesty and on Your wondrous works”. Psalm 145:5

Nature in all its beauty is so spectacular this spring. We live in southern British Columbia and I don’t remember when the new growth on the trees and grass has been so lush. The flowers are blooming in magnificent splendor. The birds are singing with all their might as they make their nests and tend to their babies. It is breathtaking!

One of the birds that make their home on our property is the Kill Deer. We find their nests beside the driveway, in the shavings in the riding arena and on piles of rocks. God has given them such a perfect camouflage that unless you stop and take time to look real hard, you will not see them, their nests or their eggs. They blend in perfectly with their surroundings. It is absolutely amazing.

God is so good at camouflage. I am not so good at it. At my age, my body has a mind of its own so I try to disguise the effects of aging. I always wear jackets or shirts as a result of an expanding waist. I wear straight cut blouses and capri pants in warmer weather – can’t wear shorts in public anymore. But as you know, we can learn to give the illusion of being younger than we are, but when we take our clothes off we are faced with the truth.

Aging is part of the cycle of life, part of the mystery of God. I recall so clearly sitting in the hospital lobby with my sisters right after my father passed away. While we sat there waiting for my brother, several mothers walked out of the hospital with their new babies. One generation leaves and the next generation is born. Life passes so quickly. Psalm 90:12 tells us: “So teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom”.

You see, the aging process is part of God’s wondrous creation – a constant reminder that this world is not our home. We are just passing through. We need to be ready to meet our Creator at any time. Are you ready? If you would die tonight, do you know for sure you would go to heaven? If not, visit this webpage: http://www.thoughts-about-god.com/biblestudies/besurechristian1.htm

Father, You are an awesome God. You alone deserve to be praised and worshiped. Help us to face the fact that soon we will be meeting You face to face. This world is not our home. Lord Jesus, we want to know You more. Amen.

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Master replied, “Well done, good and faithful servantMatthew 25:23

One evening, our six-year old granddaughter, Tia, came into our house with a piece of paper and pencil in hand. She had a Sunday school project.

Grandma,” she said, “I want to draw your foot.” So I obediently put my bare foot on the paper and she drew around it. Then she wanted to know what I wanted Jesus to say to me when I met Him face to face.

Well, that’s easy,” I said to her, “I want Jesus to say, ‘Good job, Katherine!’ So, with her mom’s help she carefully printed, “Good job, Katherine“. beside the drawing of my big foot.

The next Sunday, the church gymnasium had a whole wall covered with grandparents’ footprints. Good job! Faithful servants of our Lord!

One winter, Marvin and I traveled in Southern California. One of the highlights of this trip was meeting long-time friends and co-workers, men and women who have been serving the Lord for many, many years.

We celebrated with Warren and Diane Willis. They had been in ministry for over 30 years.

The Willis’ have been faithful. Faithful to God, faithful to their call, faithful to each other, faithful to their children and grandchildren. Only when they get to heaven will they see all the results of their faithfulness, but even now, we know that thousands of people gave their lives to Jesus Christ because this couple remained faithful. I am certain Jesus will say to them, “Well done, good and faithful servants!”

What do you want Jesus to say to you when you meet Him face to face?
Father, as we leave our footprints here on earth, we ask ourselves, “Where are we leading those who are following?” May they find us faithful to You until death. Amen.

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“Trust in the Lord with all you heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall make your path straight� Proverbs 3:5

I made an appointment for my annual mammogram. I have done this for years – since I was forty. I never give it another thought after the “squeeze jobâ€? is over. Painful, but a precautionary necessity.

This time, a few days after my mammogram, the Women’s Health Clinic called and asked me to come in to review my x-rays. They had found something in both of my breasts. Somewhat stunned, I made an appointment for the following Monday morning – five days later.

I stopped what I was doing for a few minutes and talked to the Lord and emailed my husband, who was traveling. A group of women were coming over in the next 30 minutes, so I didn’t have time to dwell on it. At the end of our prayer meeting, I told them and they prayed for me.

Between Thursday morning and the Monday appointment, many “What if’s?� crossed my mind. A friend who has gone through breast cancer recommended a book to read before the appointment. It was very helpful. I now knew what to expect and what kind of questions to ask.

Some questions I asked myself were:  What if it is cancer? Will I be able to continue working? Will my breasts have to be removed?

If it is cancer, will I be satisfied that I have followed God’s direction as best I can? Have I done what I could to bring others to faith in Christ and disciple them? Have I loved my husband, children and grandchildren enough? Have I been a good steward of the resources God entrusted to me?

If it turns out to be cancer, is there anything more I would like to see or anywhere I would still like to go? Would my journey with Christ change? Would I take a different road?

When God interrupts, a person stops, looks and listens.

Monday morning my husband I drove to the Women’s Health Clinic – rather quietly and prayerfully. Upon arriving, I had two more mammograms on each breast. Painful. Then I was called in to see the radiologist and had an ultrasound. She told me that they were cysts and nothing to be concerned about. She drained the larger cyst and the smaller one was squished during a mammogram. No cancer.

My husband and I celebrated! I emailed the friends who had prayed for me and thanked them for praying. One woman replied, “Isn’t God awesome?�

I wrote back, “God is awesome and He would still be awesome even if the tests had shown that I had breast cancer.�

God is good all the time – even when He interrupts our plans.

Thank You, Lord, for being awesome. Thank You for peace that passes all understanding.  Thank You for friends who pray. Thank You for our bodies that are so wonderfully made.  We love You. Amen.

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He replied, “This kind can come out only by prayer (and fasting)” Mark 9:29

Prayer became more of a discipline in my life after I yielded the control of life to Jesus Christ and began to walk in the Spirit. (Until then, I called to God in emergencies and before meals, but talking to God had not become a way of life.) Then the Bible became alive to me and I began to pray specifically, trusting in and testing God’s promises. Many, many prayers were answered.

I also began to fast. Sometimes for three days, sometimes once a week, sometimes for 10 days or two weeks. Sometimes it would be a complete fast – only water. Sometimes I would have juice. At times I would give up eating certain foods, or watching television or even wearing makeup.

When our son was in his early 20s, we discovered he was addicted to alcohol.  For a while he alienated himself from us and from the rest of the family. We never saw him drunk – not once – but others had and we loved him too much to let him destroy himself.

I love coffee and our children often joked that I was addicted. So I reasoned, ‘If they are right, my prayers for our son are phony.’  So I decided, with God’s help, I would stop drinking coffee until he quit drinking alcohol.  And that is what I did.  Giving up something I really enjoyed so that perhaps God would deliver our son.

God answered. As a family, we decided to have an intervention. We all told him that we loved him, but knew he was in deep trouble and wanted him to go to a treatment center to get help. Before the intervention, my husband made the arrangements for his flight and stay at the treatment center.  His boss not only gave him a leave of absence, but helped pay for his treatment.  There was only one thing left – he had to agree to go.

Thankfully, he did agree to go and after six weeks at the center he came home and to our knowledge has never had another drink.  He was delivered from the addiction to alcohol and today has become a great husband and father.

Sometimes we have to fast and pray to have our prayers answered.  If God impresses you to do so, let me encourage you to obey Him.

Father God, I sure don’t understand the increased power that fasting brings to our intercession, but I do know that You expected Your followers to fast. Please cause Your people to fast and pray so Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.  Thank you.  Amen.

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“…to be self-¬controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God�  Titus 2:5

Lately I have been thinking about my late mother-in-law – Ella Renetta Kehler. She was a good woman, faithful to her God and to her husband. She and Dad were married for over 60 years. She died at age 83.

For almost 17 years of their marriage, Dad was in a long-term-care hospital. He had a brain tumor and had brain surgery.  After the surgery and subsequent brain damage, he was like an infant and needed total care.

During all the years of dad being hospitalized, Mom went to see him six days a week. She only agreed not to go the seventh day because her children insisted she needed a day of rest. She wouldn’t even take a vacation. She loved Dad (not only endured him) and was faithful to him until she died.

She was a model and example of faithfulness.

What are some of the secrets to “sticking� with your man?

 Keeping your wedding vows (love him for better or worse, etc.).
 God’s power. http://www.thoughts-about- god.com/biblestudies/spiritfilledlife.htm
 Total commitment (read Two Keys to a Happy Marriage).
    http://www.thoughts-about-god.com/family/km-happy-marriage.html

I am in love with my husband and I am in love with God. There have been challenging times during our 52 years of marriage – we are both very strong and independent. However, shortly after I yielded the control of my life to God, He burned His directive to wives in my mind “Be kind and be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.â€? Titus 2:5.

This verse has kept me from listening to the Tempter’s whispers and lies.  I no longer entertain thoughts about leaving Marvin. You see, I love and respect God so much that I don’t want anyone to malign or think less of Him because I haven’t kept my vows. God has always helped us to be faithful to each other.

My mother-in-law set an example of “sticking with your man� to all women who knew her.

Father, You formed the family. Thank You that You will also give us everything we need to be faithful to our husbands. You promised that there would never be a temptation without which there would also be a way of escape. You always keep Your promises. Thank You! Amen.

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