Love is Patient and Kind
“Love never gives up. Love cares for others more than for self� 1 Corinthians 13:1
Someone shared this story with me and it reminded me of how often we make judgments about situations or people without knowing all the facts. How wrong we can be:
A man was traveling home by bus, when the bus stopped to pick someone up, a father with several children got on. The children were very unruly. They wouldn’t sit still. They kept changing seats and were fighting. They were doing all the annoying things that children do when parents don’t control them.
The father had taken the seat beside the first man, who by now was getting more annoyed by the minute, thinking,
“Why doesn’t he say something to control his children?�
Finally, he could take it no longer. He turned to the father and blurted,
“Your children are out of control. Why don’t you do something?�
“Yes,� the father replied, “I suppose you are right. But you see, we have just come from the hospital. Their mother died this morning. They don’t know how to handle it and neither do I.�
Wow! Talk about blowing it.
So often our judgments are based on outward appearances. We make them on hearsay or base them on our limited knowledge and experience. God looks at people’s hearts. Isaiah 11:3 has this to say about Christ:
“He will not judge by the way things look. He will not judge by what people say.�
The more we allow Christ to take control of our lives, the less likely we will be to make quick judgments about people or believe rumors. As we ask Him to put His love in our hearts we will become more like Him.
Lord Jesus, Your love is perfect. Thank You for being so patient and kind with us. When You judge and discipline us, it is because You have all the facts and it is for our good. Love always rules everything You do. We, on the other hand, are so often harsh and self-righteous when analyzing the actions of others. Today, we confess our critical and unkind attitudes to You and ask Your Spirit to enable us to be patient and kind. Amen.
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December 14th, 2009 at 6:22 am
It is good,thanks
December 14th, 2009 at 6:55 am
exactly what i need 4 2day
December 14th, 2009 at 6:31 pm
Very Interesting story.
It's lovingly expressed.
Thank you Ms. Katherine. God is with you.
December 15th, 2009 at 4:02 am
If only I understood him/her, I will have behaved differently.That is the reason why you & I should be careful & allow the promptings of the Holy Spirit to lead & direct. How mant times have we not wrongly judged & condemn people??? Oh that the Holy Spirit will lead us to make right judgements and act accordingly. We pray for the Good guidance of the Spirit in our day to day lives so as to be patient & Kind toward one another. Jesus reignes so I trust we can. God richly bless us.....
December 17th, 2009 at 1:27 am
this is human tendency to look and judge others by outer appearance and we Christian so offten do this.We need to learn,how to speak.
Thanks a lot for this wonderful artical which you have send to me.May our awesome God use you in a mighty way.